
YOU AREN’T ALONE IN YOUR WEDDING PLANNING!!!
WElcome guide!
WELCOME GUIDE!
WHAT AN HONOR IT IS TO BE YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER! I hope you are excited because I can not begin to tell you how excited I am that we have made it this far together! You had a lot of options and now I AM YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER! We get to dream about and plan your day together! I am basically your wedding planner, friend, bonus bridesmaid and photographer all in one! I am here to answer all of your questions so you feel the most prepared and ready for your wedding day! I have seen it all, not really but I have seen a lot, so I will help you navigate a tight schedule. I will help you get into your dress. I will calm down your mother who is bugging you about being late. I am not just your photographer, I am your personal hype girl, encourager and so much more! Thank you for trusting me with your memories and these special moments. This business is such a dream, and you are now a part of that dream with me! THANK YOU! Now that you have decided to work with me, this packet is designed to help you understand what the next steps will look like!
So you’ve signed your overwhelming wedding contract… now what?
Continue planning your wedding! Hiring your photographer is a big decision that is now out of the way! But you still have to continue planning. I have resources for you, like day-of timeline templates and example timelines. I have shot several weddings and each one has been different! If you have any questions about anything at all, shoot me a text or e-mail and I will help you plan your dream wedding! This packet has some FAQs that brides have asked me in the past so refer to this if this can answer some of your questions!
Oh hey it’s me again, Jade. I am the owner, lead photographer, editor, creator behind this whole shindig. I am an enneagram 6 and love the smell of the Starbucks buildings. My favorite part of wedding days is spending time with the bride and groom after the ceremony because it is such a privilege!
This is Isaiah! My husband and my second shooter, videographer, encourager and travel companion. He is an enneagram 7 and loves traveling and fly fishing! His favorite part of wedding days is hanging out with the groomsmen and bro-ing out with them! He also loves to get those creative detail shots!
MY GOAL IS TO SERVE YOU
AND CREATE BEAUTIFUL
IMAGES YOU CAN LOOK
BACK ON FOREVER
WHAT I DO TO SERVE YOU
Pray for you from the moment you contact me
Edit your images fast so you can reminisce on your special day.
I help you plan your day, whether that be we figure out your day-of-timeline or if you need to figure out if you want to wear a cardigan over your dress!
Think of me as an extra bridesmaid! I help you get ready and help the groomsmen put their boutonnières on.
Make sure we are all on the same page so your day runs smoothly.
WHAT DOES IT
LOOK LIKE TO
WORK WITH
ME?
WE HAVE LOTS OF FUN!!
The months leading up to your wedding, I will ask you lots of questions to make sure we are all on the same page. I make sure my travel and housing accommodations are set. I’ve had brides share their wedding pinterest boards with me so they can help me understand their details a bit more. The month before your wedding I send you some resources that will need to be finished and sent back to me the week of your wedding! The day of your wedding, I may come and go from your eyesight, but I promise you I am getting all of your shots! I also refer a lot to your timeline to make sure everything is running as smoothly as possible. I also ease your nerves if you feel like things are falling apart, which, by the way, isn’t haha. When I am taking pictures of you and your groom or wedding party, I will give you prompts instead of poses that feel awkward. Don’t be afraid to speak up if you want to change the pose or have a fun idea! I love that!
WEDDING DAY TIPS
GETTING READY
The day has finally come! Everything has come together, your family is here, your friends are here. The planning is done! Now all you have left to do is get ready! Here are some tips that will help you start off the day so good!
First and foremost, make sure your getting ready space has PLENTY of natural light. Big windows, setting up a chair next to a window, will make your photos 1,000% better!
Have a bag that has ALL of your wedding day stuff in it that is separate from your honeymoon bag. While you do this, set aside all of your jewelry, shoes, under garments, veil, dress, everything that you will be wearing the day of the wedding set aside for me to shoot but so you know where it is as well!
Drink water and have a snack as soon as you get up!
When you put on your wedding dress, let me know if you want me in the room with you. I won’t get pictures of your birthday suit, don’t worry!
Make sure all your girls and guys are on the same page of when everyone needs to be done getting ready.
If you want to do a first look with your girls or parents, consider that when you start getting ready so you all know when everyone needs to be ready.
DETAILS
When I arrive, I will start taking photos of your details so you can use them when you need. I will wander around the house, venue, wherever you are getting ready and will be taking these photos. MAKE SURE YOU GET A CUTE HANGER FOR YOUR DRESS! Even a wood hanger is better than a cheap, plastic one!
ITEMS TO COMPILE FOR PHOTOS
your invitations and/or save the dates
all 3 rings (engagement ring, your wedding band, his wedding band)
your ring box if you have it
your shoes
your jewelry (necklace, earrings, bracelet)
perfume
vows, if they are written
veil
FIRST LOOK
So many people do first looks nowadays for lots of reasons and most of them actually help with the logistics of the day! Here are some reasons to consider doing a first look!
If you have a ceremony outside and don’t want to worry about blindfolding the groom, consider doing a first look!
If you know you are going to feel super anxious about not seeing your sweetie all day, spend some special times alone together before the craziness of the ceremony and reception!
If you are rushed for time and need to get all of your photos done before the ceremony, plan a first look and then take wedding party and family photos done right after!
If you feel like a first look is for you, consider not having your family or wedding party around. I’ve noticed that they can distract from the intimacy and sweetness of the moment. They can be near by but try to have them fully away so this moment is just for you two (and me cause I will photograph it).
FIRST TOUCH
If you want to wait to see each other until walking down the aisle, that is A OKAY! There are some other things you can consider if you want those special moments together before the ceremony! Consider a first touch! You can find a corner, a door or stand back to back. You can write personal vows to each other, letters, or pray together. First touches are so sweet and still allow the traditional aisle first look. This also helps calm nerves of the wedding day and see how you both are feeling during the day so far.
WEDDING PARTY & FAMILY
So I will be totally honest and say that this will be the hardest part of your entire wedding day! The reason is that it is difficult to manage this many people and make sure your grandparents and your aunts are all there and everyone is smiling and happy. While that may be stressful for you, it is my fault to make sure this goes as smoothly as possible! I usually take the family photos as soon as the ceremony is over so older family members can head to the reception. Here are some things to make this all go SMOOTH:
Tell your officiant to announce at the end of the ceremony that ALL family members stay so we can get those family photos done right away.
Make sure you are DETAILED about your shot list I send you so you tell me exactly what family will be there and what family dynamics you might have so I don’t have your Uncle Don next to your dad and they have a fued I didn’t know about. This helps me so much so I can call out the order of the photos instead of trying to figure out these dynamics
Have your wedding party bring props: beers, flags, anything that you think would be fun to add as a part of the photos!
CEREMONY
We ask that your ceremony be unplugged so we can do our jobs. If you know of a guest that will be taking pictures with their own personal cameras, please have them not get in our way or use flash!
If you are able to have a say in where your ceremony will be, PLEASE consider the lighting. If your ceremony is outside, make sure direct light will not be on your faces but rather behind you. If you will be inside of a church, make sure that the sanctuary is BRIGHT and NO colored lights on the stage! It makes editing MUCH more difficult. I have worked with lots of lighting situations so don’t worry too much but these are some suggestions that will make your images turn out THAT much better!
If you will be lighting a candle, washing feet, praying privately, or combing unity sand on the stage, communicate with family, wedding party and anyone else involved that we will be getting on the stage to photograph that. There have been many situations where we were talked to strongly for “ruining the ceremony”.
For the first kiss, ask your officiant to step away before you kiss so you don’t have a face behind your smooching faces!
As you walk back down the aisle, stop midway for a big dip kiss!!!
RECEPTION
INDOOR
I’m going to sound like a broken record but make sure there is enough light! There are lots of ways to make your reception space bright but still have the ambiance!
Candles/fairy lights on the tables
String lights EVERYWHERE, especially over head if possible!
Try not to have flourescent lights. They don’t flatter anyone.
If your space has windows, open them up to let natural light in.
If you hire a DJ with a stage, make sure there is a spotlight or you can rent/buy some floor lights
Make sure when planning out your reception space, that the cake table is where everyone can see from the tables they are sitting at. If you will be having dancing, plan the tables around the dance floor so there is enough to dance where it isn’t too crowded.
OUTDOOR
If your space is outdoors, also consider light. If you are able to hang string lights, hang it around your entire space! Have a back up plan if it is too windy or it begins to rain. Don’t have napkins without silverware or something on top of it incase it blows away.
General rule: If you are doing assigned seating or know where you want your guests to sit, have a clear place for me and my team to sit and eat.
Here are some photos to help you understand the various lighting situations.
The first photo: They had their reception outside and the sun had set. They danced under this gazebo with lots of string lights. This lighting situation is okay but floor lights would have helped.
The second photo: This reception was outside and the sun was still up, mid afternoon. This lighting was perfect!
The third photo: Their reception was outside and they danced under a gazebo with some string light but the sun had just set.
The fourth photo: This reception was inside with flourescent lights. The lighting is harsh and puts shadows on your face.
The last photo: This reception was inside with lots of ambient lighting. I used flash here because it was too dark. I try not to use flash, especially if you hire a videographer but when I do I use it for moments like this. Up close. Not far away like dancing. Sometimes I do but it gets crazy for guests.
EXIT IDEAS
Yay! Your special day has come to an end so let’s celebrate the heck out of you! Make sure you choose an exit idea that works with your venue. If you are outside in the woods, sparklers probably isn’t going to be the safest idea and you don’t want to leave confetti at your nice venue for someone to pick up so here are some other ideas that could work for you!
SPARKLERS
The classic sparkler! What a way to end the day with a bang! Make sure you have enough lighters (3-5) for everyone to light them fast enough for them not to burn out. Have buckets of water to place them in after the guests are done using them. If you are able to, buy the longer sparklers so kids don’t burn their hands and they burn longer. Use sparklers if you will be leaving in the dark. Not a good idea to use when the sun is still up!
FLOWERS/LEAVES
This is a great option if you are outside! Make sure to use leaves and petals native to the area you are in if you aren’t going to be cleaning it up. Eucalyptus in the middle of the desert or mountains wouldn’t be the best. You can hole punch leaves for natural confetti for guests to throw!
BUBBLES
Bubbles are one of my favorites! This is a good option during the day if you leave before sunset. There is no clean up needed and packs of bubbles are super cheap!
BALLOONS
Balloons are lots of fun! Buy packs of balloons that match your wedding colors or that complient the scenery. You can have guests blow up their own balloons and wave them as you go by during the day. OR blow them up before hand and place glowsticks in the balloons to wave during the evening.
EXAMPLES TIMELINES
WITH A FIRST LOOK
GETTING READY 10AM - 2:00 PM
PHOTOGRAPHER ARRIVES 1:00 PM
GROOMSMEN PHOTOS 2:00 PM
BRIDAL PARTY PHOTOS 2:30 PM
FIRST LOOK 3 PM
WEDDING PARTY PHOTOS 3:30 PM
CEREMONY 4-4:30 PM
FAMILY PHOTOS 4:30 - 5:00 PM
BRIDE/GROOM PHOTOS 5:30 - 6 PM (CAN BE LONGER DEPENDING ON WHERE THE PHOTO LOCATION IS)
BRIDE/GROOM ANNOUNCED 6:15 PM
DINNER STARTS 6:15 PM
CAKE CUTTING 6:45 PM
SPEECHES 7:00 PM
DANCING 7:45 PM
EXIT 9:00 PM
WITHOUT A FIRST LOOK
GETTING READY 10AM - 2:00 PM
PHOTOGRAPHER ARRIVES 1:00 PM
GROOMSMEN PHOTOS 2:00 PM
BRIDAL PARTY PHOTOS 2:30 PM
CEREMONY 3:15 - 4 PM
FAMILY PHOTOS 4 - 4:30 PM
WEDDING PARTY PHOTOS 4:30 - 5 PM
BRIDE/GROOM PHOTOS 5 - 5:30 PM (CAN BE LONGER DEPENDING ON WHERE THE PHOTO LOCATION IS)
BRIDE/GROOM ANNOUNCED 5:45 PM
DINNER STARTS 6 PM
CAKE CUTTING 6:30 PM
SPEECHES 7:00 PM
DANCING 7:45 PM
EXIT 9:00 PM
THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE I can give you is to enjoy your wedding day! You have prepared, prayed, spent money and the day is here! There is only so much you can do to prepare for the worst on your wedding day and honestly, there will be some things that go wrong! BUT IT IS OKAY! If you are falling a little bit behind schedule, that is honestly expected on wedding days! Your guests and family should give you grace and understand. If your sticky bra doesn’t fit the way you thought it would, your girls will help you out and fix you up! If your family is throwing a fit about something pointless, I will set in and say, “It is okay!” When you look back on your wedding day, you want to remember the joy you felt, not the stress. Your wedding day will feel like a blur and that is totally normal so don’t put too much weight on the small details. Everything will come together. Your family and your wedding party will be there to help out with anything that you need! Let your dress drag in the dirt (YOU WILL NEVER WEAR IT AGAIN), don’t stress too much about your lipstick (YOU ARE GOING TO BE KISSING YOUR MAN ALL DAY ANYWAY), wear the underwear that is the most comfortable (DON’T LET YOUR MOMMA FORCE YOU TO WEAR A THONG, if you don’t want to). If you want to leave your wedding early because you guys are tired or the weather isn’t working out, DO IT! If you need a minute for yourself to escape all of the questions and nagging, escape! Have fun on your wedding day. Try not to stress!
I HAVE EXPERIENCED A LOT, GOOD AND BAD, AT WEDDINGS. SO THERE ARE SOME THINGS I NEED FROM YOU SO WE BOTH HELP EACH OTHER
SOME THINGS I NEED FROM Y O U
Make sure to check your email for payment reminders from me
All travel arrangements be done, booked ASAP (If applicable)
Book my hotel/airbnb 2-3 weeks before your wedding (If applicable)
Send the timeline back the week of your wedding
Account for me and my second shooter (if you booked that) in your reception meal (make sure to give us seats), and in your timeline
Put all details (rings, bouquet, shoes, veil, jewelry) aside the day before the wedding
Try to have a day-of-coordinator or friend to keep track of timing for the day
Make sure family members know that I am getting all of the pictures I was hired to get
Make sure family members aren't getting in the way when they are taking pictures
Make sure the getting ready, ceremony and reception space has enough light
FAQs
How long do pictures normally take on the wedding day?
Family and wedding party photos take around 30 minutes total when everyone is there and on top of things. But I’ve also shot weddings where it has taken up to an hour because family members would leave and come back. CARVE OUT AT LEAST 45 MINUTES and tell all your family members and wedding party to be there at that time. Make sure they don’t have any duties during that time so we can get through it fast! Romantics (bride and groom photos) take 30 minutes max. These photos are special so you can spend time away from the day and chaos and be with your sweetie. Plus we get to be more creative with these photos and have some fun! You can try to have these photos at a special location away from the ceremony or reception space but account for the travel time in your day of timeline.
What locations should I take photos at?
Lots of open space that has options for shade and light! Good backdrops like mountains, deserts or lakes. A place that is easy to access especially with older family members or large groups of people.
Can we request certain shots we want taken?
Yes! Please! If you are wanting specific shots with certain individuals, you can grab me during the wedding day. But I will need a list of what family photos you want. It helps me figure out your family dynamics as well. Like if you absolutely can not have Uncle Fred with Aunt Carol, that list helps take care of those awkward family moments that tend to happen on wedding days.
Can we add more hours after we have signed our contract?
Absolutely! I will add it to your contract and I will remind you of the updated final amount!